Reasons to Hire a Divorce Lawyer

If you are getting divorced, you may be contemplating whether you need to hire a family law attorney. With all the legal information available online, you might be tempted to represent yourself, which is not advisable. Getting a divorce is very challenging, and it can get worse when you try to do it without the help of legal counsel. Family law attorneys are there to offer the legal advice and representation you need during these difficult times.  Check out these detailed points on why hiring a lawyer during the separation of your marriage is crucial. 


 1.) To protect yourself

  Having legal counsel will ensure that your interests are protected. When going through the divorce process, many things are affected, such as property rights. With someone who has the legal know-how by your side, you are sure to make the right decisions towards an amicable separation. Whether you go for a contested or uncontested separation, having a lawyer is an excellent decision to make. 

 2.) For expert advice

 Experienced divorce lawyers  will ensure that they help you to understand everything regarding the separation process under the confines of the law. State laws do not always require that wealth be shared equally. Sometimes a spouse can be entitled to alimony and the future income of the ex-spouse, such as their retirement benefits. In case you have a complicated issue to settle before ending your marriage, a lawyer is an invaluable resource that you should consider. Let the expert know what your interests are, and he or she will assist in providing a more favorable outcome. 

 3.) You need objective advice during this emotional period

  Separating from a partner can be an extremely emotional time for both parties. The surge of emotions can quickly put you in mayhem of confusion and distress. You experience feelings of fear, betrayal, sadness, confusion, depression, resignation and rage. Sometimes these feelings can come all at once. Such heightened emotions may skew your judgment. Only a few people have the time and motivation to work through the emotions of parting ways with their spouse. 

 The emotions are likely to hinder your ability to work objectively and resolving the critical issues. If you are considering self-representation, think about all these feelings. Is it possible to avoid having a clouded judgment? The chances are slim. A family lawyer will make clear decisions that are not influenced by emotions. Through the process, the legal counsel will remind you to keep your feelings in check or introduce you to the right professionals. Therefore, a lawyer acts as a buffer. 

4.) To protect your custody rights

  Child custody is one of the issues that are highly contested during separation, and a lawyer can assist you to keep the rights you deserve. An excellent legal expert will ensure that you understand all the facts and laws regarding the case. They will gather the necessary documents and interview the relevant witnesses. The lawyer will focus on your child’s best interest and see to it that your little one does not get caught up in the mix-up. 

 5.) To get professional help with the paperwork

  Separation cases involve a lot of paperwork. At some point, you might feel like you are buried beneath a mountain of paperwork that should be filled and filed in the court proceedings. Knowing the forms that you should fill at each stage is confusing. 

 The judge will rely heavily on the documents presented to him or her. Therefore, producing complete paperwork is an importance aspect that determines the outcome of the case. Using an inappropriate tone or the wrong numbers on a file might result in the judge assuming that you are careless and ruling the case against your favor. A lawyer understands what information to fill on every form, thus increasing the chances of the judge ruing in your favor. 

6.) To speed up the process

  A separation case might take an incredibly long time. Hiring an attorney ensures that you know what is expected of you. It means that you could settle much faster than you, particularly in complicated divorce proceedings when their are children involved. 

 7.) The lawyer sees the “big picture.”

  While you might be working towards winning the case, the lawyer will be after getting the best deal possible. For a wholesome achievement to be realized, you may have to compromise on some issues. A separation is not only about getting the certificate; it involves a transition into singlehood. Part of a smooth transition is to have the necessary resources to live on. A good lawyer will advise you on what to focus on and how to handle the entire case. Start by setting your priorities and presenting them to the legal counsel for proper guidance. 

 8.) To ensure fairness

  It may not seem like much, but unfairness in a separation case is not something anyone would wish for. A lawyer will go through all the offers made by the other side and ensure they are fair enough before you agree to anything. Most states have set rules on how property and other important matters are to be handled after marriage is annulled. Your legal counsel’s goal is to ensure that your interests are represented fairly. 

 9.) A lawyer can suggest options you had no idea existed

  Experienced divorce lawyers have a wealth of knowledge on how separation works. They can evaluate your situation and propose workable solutions you never knew existed. Based on their experience regarding similar cases to yours, they will offer an array of legally-accepted options to settle the matter. If you and your partner work out the separation without legal assistance, you may suggest solutions that the judge will reject. 


10) To communicate with your spouse 

  Sometimes spouses are not in talking terms, which makes self-representation impossible. When spouses have a lot of resentment towards each other, they will benefit from the assistance of lawyers to open up lines of communication. Lawyers will ensure you avoid potentially volatile interactions by keeping things civil and professional. You may not agree on anything with your spouse, but the attorneys will help you reach an amicable settlement. 



Divorce proceedings can be a complicated process. Jill M. Denman, partner at the Law firm of Matheny Hahn & Denman, has been assisting clients with all manners of Family Law in the Huntington, IN, Wabash, IN and surrounding communities for over 20 years. Jill, a Wabash , IN native focusing on all aspects of family law including Divorce, Child Custody, adoptions, paternity, child support , guardianships, visitation, and is a certified family law mediator. Contact us today if you need assistance in a family law matter.